I'm sure any Adult Babies who read this blog must think that I have the perfect set up to satisfy my baby needs. I have a daddy whom I love, I get indulged beyond my wildest dreams and have a boyfriend who totally accepts and embrases this side of me completely. I know I could explain any fantasy scenario to him and have him accept it. He may not want to take part, or may not even be able to take part, but I know he accepts it. Some of them he may not like the idea of, but I know he accepts it as something that I consider and would possibly like to try.
He tries everything to make sure I am as happy a baby as possible.
And I in return only wish I could make him just as happy as he makes me. Maybe I do, I sincerelly hope I do.
However, as an Adult Baby you have to get used to the double edged blade that is this fetish.
We've all dreamed of finding a partner that accepts us for who we are. We've spent many nights imagining all the baby days we could spend with out partners; all the nappy changes, all the feedings and most importantly, all the cuddles. Trust me, the cuddles are possibly more important than the parifinalia. Who needs a crib when you have someone's arms around you, accepting you as you lye there in the most vulnerable state you can possibly be in?
And some may say I am extremelly lucky for finding that person. And I am. I will never say I am not lucky. I will never not completely appreciate everything Daddy does for me. What I have found is rare and I know it.
However, this does come with its own set of problems. They are babies own problems. It's not something your partner does wrong - after all, when role playing their aim is to make you a happy and satisfied baby. And we as babies, lye there and let them.
And here is where we come to the problem.
You have to force your partner to look after you, to cater to your every whim, to disregard their own wants and desires for a time and completely focus their attention on you.
They may not want to. They may prefer an evening cuddled on the sofa watching movies, but you may have a really strong urge and just feel you need to be a baby for a night so, as selfish babies we have to make a compromise. We will watch a movie, aslong as we can do it padded. We will go out on a date night if it means we can sleep padded that night. We will have dinner with your parents if it means a padded weekend, etc.
It is an entirely selfish fetish.
I am often completely wracked with guilt, either just before or just after baby play at how selfish I have been. I'm sure i've forced Daddy into babying me more than once when he hasn't actually wanted to. I'm sure he's been left frustrated when, planning an adult weekend, i've turned up with nappies in my bag and worked them into the mix through pleading and strops. He's always taken it well, never complained, always indulged me and allowed me to sleep atleast one night padded, then he'll change me in the morning and we'll carry on as normal.
But I can't help but wonder if secretly, he's resented it a little. I know he'd never mean it in a bad way, but it's completely understandable if he's been left annoyed - just wanting a weekend to relax and instead he's been left with a little baby girl demanding constant attention.
Believe it or not Babies, there was a point to this post and that is, don't take it for granted. If you have a mummy/daddy/care-giver, please appreciate them to the fullest as there is alot they have to put up with catering to our demands. It takes alot of time and energy, so please, do something back for them afterwards.
To make a baby/care-giver relationship work there has to be alot of compromise - alot more than in a 'normal' relationship.
I appreciate what I have every-single day and sometimes I don't let that show as much as I should. I truely love my daddy and everything he does for me, he's amazing. I just really hope he knows that.
So fellow babies, if you have a care-giver, let them know just how much they mean to you. If you are babies still dreaming of a care-giver, please take my advice to heart. We can be extremely selfish little babies, so make sure when you have a mummy or a daddy, you let them know how much you appreciate their hugs and kisses.
I'm certainly going to try harder to make sure my daddy knows.
Until next time Babies,
Stay padded and safe,
LittleABgirl,
xxx
